It Appears Women are Being Conned into Marriage, Nowadays- This 'marriage tins, sef'

The average Nigerian woman can't wait to get married due to family, societal and peer pressures ( my friends are getting married).

Even on their wedding day, the the joy is so evident on their faces. 

But many women are unhappy and being used in the so called marriages. They take care of the house, kids while combining it with their work/business. While the husband enjoys the whole service, in some cases still chasing fresh babes outside, some drop money for their wife upkeep while some don't even drop, expecting the wife to use her money.  

 Due to societal and parental pressures too, some guys just deceive a girl to marry them just so that they the men can be seen as responsible while still living their normal single lives, but the lady gives up her life.This is not fair ooooo.

There are lots of women like that around, you see them tired, worn out and depressed. but this isn't fair?